Thoughtful mediation for couples ready to move forward

Based in the Upper West Side, Covering NYC - NY State

Carmen Rodriguez helps couples in New York enter “pre-nups”, separate respectfully, protect what matters most, and find clarity through mediation and collaborative law — without court battles.

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Philosophy

“Divorce doesn’t have to be acrimonious — it can be a thoughtful transition”
“When you focus on solutions, not conflict, you protect your future — and your children’s.”
— Carmen Rodriguez

Awards, Experience & Testimonials

  • JAMES DUANE AWARD

    In November 2024, Carmen was honored to receive the James Duane Award from the United States District Court, Southern District of New York. The District Court recognized her work mediating a very contentious cross-border dispute conducted entirely in Spanish with pro se litigants on both sides.

    Carmen was one of the three mediators honored on behalf of a 220-mediator panel.

  • L.W. | Client

    "It is Carmen's warmth, kindness, and generosity that really sets her apart from all the other lawyers and mediators out there. She was compassionate every step of the way, giving me the confidence and strength to know that I would get through it, and that a better, happier future lay ahead. I will be forever grateful to her for making a very painful process so much easier for me and our kids. Thank you, Carmen!"

  • E.W. | Client

    "I could never have gotten through my very contentious and difficult divorce without Carmen's guidance and support. She is incredibly smart and knowledgeable, and really helped us understand the ins and outs of the complicated legal process, from parenting schedules to finances. Her calm, level-headed approach allowed my husband and I to ultimately reach a fair agreement, without compromising the needs of myself and our two children."

  • J.L. | Client

    "Carmen, I was really grateful both for your legal expertise and your thoughtfulness handling the emotional issues."

  • J.C. | Client

    "We thank you for your humanity and professionalism in handling this case."

    "Te agradecemos tu humanidad y profesionalidad para llevar este caso."

  • R.A. Consulting Attorney | Client

    “Living up to the highest ethical standards...

    It is my pleasure to recommend Carmen, a true professional. A master of her trade who will represent you with everything that she has got. Living up to the highest ethical standards,she will be one of the best choices you will make and certainly the easiest recommendation I have ever had to put my mind into.”

  • D.N. | Client

    “I'm so grateful that, as I navigated my collaborative divorce, I retained Carmen as a consulting attorney. She was deeply knowledgeable about the mediation and divorce process, helped me understand what to expect, was an invaluable sounding board as I worked through some unexpected issues, and struck the perfect balance between keeping things moving toward an amicable resolution and knowing when to push to protect my interests. I recommend her without reservation to anyone.”

  • A.H. Consulting Attorney

    Thank you for the high professionalism and patience that you showed throughout the mediation session. Your input and understanding of each party's needs makes you a highly valuable resource for parties going through mediation and my client and I greatly appreciate.

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The right way to enter into prenuptial agreements

These legal documents, called "pre-nups" for short, are contracts signed before marriage to outline asset and debt management.

Carmen’s mediation approach will help you start your marital life the right way.

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Helping couples divorce amicably

Child Custody Without Courtroom Battles

Carmen helps parents build child-centered parenting plans through collaboration.

Whether you’re defining parenting schedules or support arrangements, her approach prioritizes stability and communication — not litigation.

Includes:

  • Custody mediation and co-parenting plans

  • Legal documentation for separation agreements

  • Preparation and modification of child support agreements.

Protect Your Partnership with Confidence

With your financial interests in mind.

Carmen designs custom prenuptial and postnuptial agreements that protect assets, careers, and your family’s future needs.

Her agreements provide financial clarity with emotional awareness— helping you safeguard what matters most while preserving trust.

Includes:

  • Prenups for young professionals

  • Postnups for established couples

  • High net worth and business owner protection

Find Common Ground — Without Court Intervention

Carmen’s collaborative divorce and mediation services empower couples to make decisions together, guided by legal structure and compassion.

This approach is ideal for couples who want to minimize cost, conflict, and emotional strain while reaching lasting agreements.

We are here to help.

“I came to Carmen after mediation with another mediator had completely broken down. I was representing myself against my ex-wife's attorney and felt like I was about to get steamrolled.

Carmen changed everything.

She helped me get the case back on track. We returned to mediation and actually resolved the lawsuit - something I didn't think would be possible.

What makes her different? She prioritizes the kids. She's not trying to "win" for one side. She helps both parties find common ground. Most lawyers ramp up the conflict. Carmen brings it down.

I can't recommend her enough.”

Hugo Seureau, Entrepreneur, New York City, December 2025

Contact us at any time at:

+1 (917) 900-2658 | carmen@rodriguezlawandmediation.com | 178 Columbus Avenue, Unit 23099, New York, NY 10023