Philosophy
“Divorce doesn’t have to be acrimonious — it can be a thoughtful transition”
“When you focus on solutions, not conflict, you protect your future — and your children’s.”
Awards, Experience & Testimonials
20+ years of legal experience in New York.
Ivy League Educated: Columbia, Brown University
President of the Family and Divorce Mediation Council
50+ Certifications & Trainings (hundreds of hours)
10+ Official Court Selections (“Rosters”)
>500 families trusted me throughout NYC and the Upper West Side to achieve amicable resolutions
You are getting married!
Hooray!
Now, let’s talk about a Prenup.
The best way to reach prenuptial agreements: the two of you talking and deciding together.
Let's talk about what the law requires, and the two of you make decisions together.
Protect what you want to keep separate, and reach an agreement on what you want to build together.
Divorce Mediator & Collaborative Lawyer Upper West Side, NYC | Carmen Rodriguez
Helping couples separate and divorce without courtroom battles.
Child Custody Without Courtroom Battles
Carmen helps parents build child-centered parenting plans.
No one knows your family better than the two of you. You are in the best position to make these decisions that are going to impact your lives and those of your children. A judge doesn’t know you or your children. Who would you rather make the decisions?
Whether you’re defining parenting schedules or support arrangements, her approach prioritizes stability and communication
Includes:
Custody mediation and co-parenting plans
Legal documentation for separation agreements
Preparation and modification of child support agreements.
Prenuptial and Postnuptial Agreements
Built on Trust
A strong partnership starts with trust, in each other, and in the process itself.
A prenuptial agreement shouldn't be handed to one partner as something already decided, it should be built together, through real conversation, so it reflects what you both actually want. Done that way, it becomes a foundation of shared understanding and mutual respect.
Carmen works closely with each couple to craft a prenuptial or postnuptial agreement that's truly theirs, shaped by their own conversations, their priorities, and the trust between them. It protects assets, careers, and the future they're building together as a family.
Her agreements bring financial clarity, helping you safeguard your future with someone you can trust to guide you every step of the way.
Includes:
Prenups for young professionals
Postnups for established couples
High net worth and business owner protection
Find Common Ground Through Mediation.
Without Courtroom Battles
Carmen's divorce mediation and collaborative divorce services in New York empower couples to make decisions together, without courtroom battles, guided by legal structure and compassion.
This approach is ideal for couples who want to minimize cost, conflict, and emotional strain while reaching lasting legally sound agreements.
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“I came to Carmen after mediation with another mediator had completely broken down. I was representing myself against my ex-wife's attorney and felt like I was about to get steamrolled.
Carmen changed everything.
She helped me get the case back on track. We returned to mediation and actually resolved the lawsuit - something I didn't think would be possible.
What makes her different? She prioritizes the kids. She's not trying to "win" for one side. She helps both parties find common ground. Most lawyers ramp up the conflict. Carmen brings it down.
I can't recommend her enough.”
Hugo Seureau, Entrepreneur, New York City, December 2025
Contact us at any time at:
+1 (917) 900-2658 | carmen@rodriguezlawandmediation.com | 178 Columbus Avenue, Unit 23099, New York, NY 10023